15/10/2026
Let me say something about what has been going on on social media since yesterday concerning hair tutorials, lifestyles, and friendship.
The truth is, everybody cannot have the same character. Sometimes, we do things believing we are right, not knowing that someone else may see it differently. That is why it is important to ask questions and communicate before taking certain actions. Nobody knows it all, and nobody is perfect.
Before you bring your friends to social media to drag them because you feel they failed to check on you or your husband while she was in the hospital, have you tried expressing your disappointment to them privately?
Have you told them how you felt about their actions or inactions? Sometimes, people may not even realise that what they did or failed to do has hurt you.
You people started your friendship without involving the public, so why bring the public into your disagreements now? By bringing everything online, you are making people see your friends as bad people without giving them the chance to explain their own side of the story.
Like I said, nobody is perfect, and we all have different ways of showing love, care, and concern. What matters is communication and understanding.
My advice is this: Before you expose your friends to public judgment, try talking to them privately first. Tell them what hurt you and give them a chance to explain themselves.
Not every disappointment needs to become a social media matter. Sometimes, a simple conversation can save a friendship that public dragging might destroy.
What do you all think? Is it right to bring friendship issues to social media before trying to settle them privately?
