08/31/2026
**BUYER MYTH MONDAY**
MYTH: “I WAS APPROVED FOR $500,000, SO THAT’S MY BUDGET.”
Nope.
That's the amount you've been approved to borrow.
It does NOT automatically mean that's what you should spend.
Before we ever start looking at houses, I want my buyers to know the number that matters much more:
**What monthly payment are YOU actually comfortable with?**
Because owning a home doesn't stop at principal and interest.
Depending on the property and your loan, your monthly housing expenses can also include property taxes, homeowners insurance, mortgage insurance and HOA or condo fees.
Then there's everything that doesn't appear on a mortgage statement:
Utilities.
Maintenance.
Repairs.
Furniture.
That HVAC system that absolutely does not care that you just spent all your savings on closing. 😂
And most importantly — you still need to LIVE.
Go out to dinner.
Take a vacation.
Buy the shoes.
Have an emergency without immediately panicking.
A lender can tell you what you **qualify** to borrow.
My job is to help you think about what makes sense for the life you actually want to live.
Sometimes those numbers match.
Sometimes the smartest decision is buying WELL below your maximum approval.
The goal isn't to buy the most house you can afford.
It's to buy a home you can comfortably afford to LIVE in.
Amy Trahan Virginia Real Estate Agent, Property Manager
Associate Broker
Property Manager
(703) 785-7461
Sutton Tullio Realty LLC