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Seasons Coaching Your conflict isn’t the problem. Your nervous system is the answer. | Life + Relationship Coach for midlife women | Seasons of Joy Podcast

She looked in the mirror one day and thought, “I don’t even know who I am anymore.”Maybe that’s you. Maybe it’s me.That’...
05/28/2026

She looked in the mirror one day and thought, “I don’t even know who I am anymore.”

Maybe that’s you. Maybe it’s me.

That’s exactly why I created this 5-part Enneagram series.

Because midlife has a way of stripping away all the roles we’ve been playing and asks us the one question we’ve been too busy to answer:

“Who am I really?”

We are talking Gut, Heart, and Head.

Three completely different ways of moving through the world.

And once you understand which one is yours, everything starts to make a little more sense.

The full series is alive on YouTube.

Link in the bio. 🎥

Start with Episode 201: Who Am I Now? Using the Enneagram to Find Yourself in Midlife

05/20/2026

In this episode Jill Pack explores the Enneagram heart triad (types 2, 3, and 4) and the quiet question that drives them: “Am I loved?” She explains how each type handles shame—helping, performing, or dwelling—and the gifts and costs of those patterns, especially in midlife. With a faith-bas...

Midlife has a way of asking you to let go of things you weren’t ready to release.A friendship that quietly faded. A role...
05/13/2026

Midlife has a way of asking you to let go of things you weren’t ready to release.

A friendship that quietly faded.

A role that defined you for decades.

A version of yourself you thought you’d always be.

A place you have called home.

And grief shows up.

Not because something went wrong, but because something mattered.

You don’t have to rush it.

You don’t have to explain it.

You don’t have to be further along than you are.

The grief doesn’t always get smaller.

But you get bigger.

And slowly, you find you can hold it and still keep living, still keep loving, still keep going.

That’s not moving on.

That’s moving through.

If you’re in a season of loss right now — big or small, named or unnamed — I see you.

It counts.

And you’re allowed to grieve it.

💬 What are you letting go of this season?

05/13/2026

In this episode, Jill Pack explores the Enneagram's gut triad (types 8, 9, and 1), showing how anger functions as information and how each type manages that energy differently—8s push it out, 9s push it down, and 1s push it in. She introduces the SNAP tool (Stop, Notice, Ask, Pivot) as taught by I...

This is my beautiful mom. My heart aches for her when I look at this picture. I miss her.She was beautiful inside and ou...
05/10/2026

This is my beautiful mom.

My heart aches for her when I look at this picture.

I miss her.

She was beautiful inside and out.

She had a kind heart and a desire to serve.

I will forever be grateful that she is my mother.

Love you to the moon and back, momma! 💛

05/07/2026

If you've ever been in conflict with someone you love and you felt like the two of you aren't even speaking the same language, this episode is for you. We are going to be talking about the doorway your conflict tends to walk through. Jill Pack introduces the Enneagram's three triads—Body, Heart, a...

04/28/2026

Somewhere in midlife, most of us hit a moment where we realize we've spent decades being who everyone needed us to be but we've lost track of who we actually are. In this episode, certified life + relationship coach Jill Pack introduces the Enneagram and explains why midlife might be the most powerf...

04/23/2026

You cannot make someone feel an emotion. 💛

And I know that sounds simple but sit with it for a second.

Because most of us have spent years trying to do exactly that.

We carefully choose our words.

We soften the timing.

We swoop in before a feeling even has a chance to land.

We call it being considerate.

Being nice.

Being a good partner.

But there's a name for it and it's not kindness.

It's managing.

And the exhausting truth is: it doesn't work.

You cannot control how someone feels.

And every ounce of energy you spend trying to? It's not just wasted but it's working against you.

This is one of the most important distinctions I've ever learned, and I'm unpacking all of it in Episode 200 of the Seasons of Joy Podcast. 🎙️

If you've ever walked on eggshells, rehearsed a conversation seventeen times before having it, or felt responsible for keeping everyone around you okay this episode is for you.

Link in bio to listen. 🤍

🎙️ Seasons of Joy Podcast | Ep. 200
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There's a difference between being mindful of someone's feelings and managing them.And it's costing you more than you kn...
04/22/2026

There's a difference between being mindful of someone's feelings and managing them.

And it's costing you more than you know.

Managing looks like:

→ Walking on eggshells
→ Rehearsing conversations in your head
→ Holding your emotions in so there's room for theirs
→ Taking it personally when they're upset
→ Constantly predicting how they'll react

It feels like love.

But it's exhausting you.

Being mindful means you care about how your words land.

Managing means you're trying to control how they feel.

One comes from love.

One comes from fear.

You can care deeply about someone's feelings
without being responsible for fixing them.

You can deliver hard things with a tender heart
and still let them have their reaction.

That's not indifference.

That's freedom.

This is exactly what we're unpacking in Episode 200 of the Seasons of Joy Podcast.

Link in bio to listen. 🎙️

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