04/05/2025
Time is relative and dependent on so many variables as are our losses, and for that reason, some people might be shocked that after three years I haven’t yet been able to “get it together” and get back in a game that I enjoyed as much as I did, but if that’s the case, then I will consider them “lucky” that their hearts haven’t felt holes big enough to halt time while it still keeps moving around them. Most of us aren’t that lucky though, so I hope my honesty and transparency about my experience gives someone out there going through something similar a little hope.
**Last thing I’ll say here.**
Loss does not have to beget loss. Loss can mold us into new versions of ourselves, set us on new courses, take us to new places but there is no timeline for when any of that happens. It just happens as it does. Sometimes it feels shamefully difficult and sometimes it feels easy. When it feels hard, go outside, call someone you love and look up at the sky. ♥️🌳🌝
Thank you for your love and support ALWAYS.