11/08/2026
So bullying in the spiritual and paranomal feild is back in the spotlight light there are paranomal groups teams and individuals grasping there pearls waving the hands and up in arms about it ....oh no we have to do something ..
... so we are going to talk about it ...
The last wave of anti bullying content start with paranoma team ParaCult ... and to be honest its agree with everything the young man said .... but this isnt a new problem ive been in this feild for 9 years and i faced bullying pretty much as soon as I started working spiritually and it hasnt stopped it has gotten to the point now ive made the desion to pull back ..
My mental and physical health has never been grate and I made the decision I just didnt want to play in the sand pit with other that were trying all there might to beating me ti death with a plastic shovel ...
I love what I do .... but I dint love the feild I do it in abd now pulling back from that feild I see a new wave og people coming up against the same bu****it I delt with it and nothing has changed . .
Change doesnt come by writing posts with catching looking letter and slogans it doesnt start with discussion it start with us ... it start with accountability... it start with not enabling the behaviour.... by not staning up to it and calling in out when it happens .... it start with the feild making bullying... gossip... roumor and putting others down unpalatable.... unacceptable.... not cool it start with us making a choice that this isnt what we want in the field ... this isnt who we want the outside world to see us as ....
When I was with my exhusband no one called out domestic abuse no one pulled him up for the way he spoke to me how or how I was treated... people didnt want to get involved... now there a campaign of if you see something say something ...abd now calling it out is encourage
The unbelly of the paranomal feild attract some undesirable controlling egocentric people but no one calls them out ....
In 9 years in the feild i have my abilities question.. my private life discussed ...my family the subject of ridicule.... my spiritual ethic questioned ....ive been the subject of gossip.. roumor.. stalking ... false accusations .... my spuritual belief used as cannon fodder ... my mental health question ...my chronic illness subject of discussion...even the way I treat my chronic pain ....my personal loss and greif some how linked to negtive spiritual and paranomal activity ...for that only a hand full of people have stood up for me in rooms im not in when they have been present to lies gossip roumor
One of those friend lost her job calling out those who chose repeat and belive the gossip and my friend made the choice not be part of the bullying
Change doesnt come by makeing social media posts ... it come for makeing a personal decision.. not to carry the rumours... not to participate in the gossip .. not to join in the bullying ... a bully is only powerful because the minon supporting them mob mantality the power of the mob is vast and was also the fall of many roman emperors...and if that was you in the past owning what you did and changing it
The psychology of bullying is jealously... the bully want what another has and the cant have it and that is link to ego ....
So parnomal feild make all the post you wish ... they mean nothing if you yourself dont walk the walk and talk the talk . ..
All the post mean nothing unless you as a person decides to change ...