06/12/2025
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WOMANWALKINGAWIRE
I'm going to rant for a minute...
Why do we, societally, hate women's bodies so much?
This week someone in my crochet group shared an absolutely amazing v***a balaclava and it was glorious. Subsequently, people from the group shared her photo without permission or credit to crochet shaming groups and other groups. The comments... "Just because you can crochet something doesn't mean you should" which I completely disagree with. Unless it's something hateful, you absolutely should crochet something just because you can and want to, because it's art. Other comments... "Ew" and similar.
Do you know how many patterns are out there for crochet pen*ses? And while those do get SOME hateful comments, they do not get shared in shaming groups (unless they are fantastically unhinged) or get the same level of disgust as when an artist shares something depicting a v***a no matter what level of quality the item is.
There are several things that sadden me about this. One, is that people are sharing anything to craft shaming groups at all. I think it's pathetic. They are trying to get attention for someone else's creation. Yet they want to pass it off as disgusting or hideous in some way, but want some part of the attention for themselves over that thing. Or, I guess maybe they want some validation for their feelings about said thing and a momentary high of inclusion hidden in a group bullying practice that seems harmless because they don't think the OG will see it. But, they will probably see it at some point and it will be hurtful on many levels.
Second, it's women sharing these things and being disgusted over these things when it's their own bodies! Your body isn't disgusting. And I would rather see a v***a any day over a peen, be it crocheted or otherwise. Stop feeding into this lie that there is something shameful or nasty about women's bodies!
We are exquisitely formed. Let's break away from this conditioned idea that our parts are gross.
Thank you for listening to my rant. Obviously this isn't the creation that was shared in the shaming groups, this is my Sapphic Granny Square uncensored.