01/09/2026
Here in England, the turning is beginning.
The mornings are darker.
The evenings arrive a little earlier.
The air carries a cooler edge, even when the sun still warms our faces.
The trees are beginning to loosen their grip.
One leaf.
Then another.
And another.
Summer slowly surrenders itself to Autumn, and there's something deeply sacred in watching it happen.
We live in a world that often teaches us to resist endings.
To hold on.
To keep what we love exactly as it is.
But nature doesn't.
The oak doesn't cling to every leaf.
The hedgerows don't mourn every fallen flower.
The fields give up their harvest.
The land releases what it can no longer carry.
And perhaps we can learn from this.
Death work asks us to recognise that not every ending is a failure. Some endings are simply part of the natural rhythm of life.
As we move from Summer into Autumn, this is a beautiful time to ask yourself:
• What am I ready to release?
• What has served its purpose?
• What have I carried through this season that I no longer need to carry into the next?
• What old story?
• What expectation?
• What relationship with myself?
• What fear?
• What version of who I thought I had to be?
And before we release it, give thanks. We can be grateful for what something taught us and still let it go. We can honour a relationship and accept that it has ended. We can thank an old version of ourselves for getting us this far and still allow her to die.
🍂A CEREMONY OF RELEASE🍂
Find a quiet place outdoors.
Take a fallen leaf into your hands.
Hold it gently and think about the season you are leaving behind.
Name three things you are grateful for.
Then name one thing you are ready to release.
Speak it aloud.
“I thank you for what you have given me.
I honour what you have taught me.
I release what I no longer need to carry.
What has ended may rest.
What is ready to die, may die.
And I step forward lighter.”
Place the leaf upon the earth.
Let the earth take it.
Let the season change.
And trust that there is wisdom in the letting go.
Words by The Crow Woman / Lyndsey Watson