25/03/2026
Post radiotherapy… ok, a bit of truth.
The whole “cancer warrior” thing… sometimes it really pi**es me off.
Because when you feel exhausted, sore, emotional… or just not coping that well… it can make you feel like you’re somehow doing it wrong.
Like you’re not being strong enough.
I thought I’d bounce back quicker than this.
Turns out… that’s not what my body has decided.
I’m in bed, my seroma’s flared up again, fighting infection and I feel pretty rough if I’m honest.
I’ve realised we don’t really post the days when we feel like this. Because that’s not what people want to see.
So it can look like everyone else is just riding cancer like absolute heroes…
and you’re the only one struggling.
You’re not.
Cancer treatment is messy. It’s a privilege to be here to fight … but let’s not have to make us all warriors on top of everything else we are medically and emotionally contending with. Some days you’re strong.
Some days you’re just getting through.
Both count 🤍
So much love. X