25/01/2025
I am out of here...
I've been feeling increasingly uncomfortable basing myself on Facebook and Instagram and really the decision to leave comes down the final straw which is that:
The people pulling the strings of power atop of these algorithms making me feel, quite honestly, a little bit sick...
But I am also leaving because I no longer really enjoy using them
Because I increasingly feel they offer an illusion of connection that detracts from real interaction.
Because I can literally feel the algorithms digging their carefully engineered claws into me and sucking me back in every time I make conscious effort to step away for a bit and I am having to use up too much precious energy in resisting them.
Because I want to let my girls see it is a choice they can make.
Because I would like the time it steals from my life back.
And because despite the fact they have connected me at times, with communities I have valued, I think overall the impact of engaging with them has a negative effect on my wellbeing.
So I will be using the 1/2 an hour to 2 hours a day leached from my life (around 208-728 hours a year) to:
Reading the ever growing pile of books I never get to
Reaching out for real connections with those I love
Being present with my children as they grow up way too fast, so I dont blink and miss it
Staring into space
Feeling
Resting
Sleeping
Meditating
Healing
Learning
Spinning and knitting and creating
Writing
Finding local community
Fighting for a better world for my children
And if course stroking the cat who could resist 😂
I will still be here for the next week or so, while I work out how to extract the things I want to keep and how stay in touch..
So do DM me if you think you'd like to stay in touch and we don't have another way to link up.
And thank you to everyone who has supported me on here...
Xx