26/07/2023
食咗飯未? [s*k jor fan mei] / Have you eaten yet?
(Or literally, "have you eaten rice yet?"
This is a common greeting in Chinese, almost the equivalent of "how are you?". Because surely if you haven't eaten yet then things cannot be right.
In Cantonese there isn't really a term for "I love you" or "I care for you" in a maternal/paternal sort of way. The closest phrase might be 食咗飯未 / have you eaten yet?
I remember when I'd get into trouble with my parents for staying out late, hanging around with the wrong people... There would be a few hours of tension, shouting followed by the silent treatment and strops and then eventually, Mum or Dad would ask 食咗飯未? And then proceed to make a meal. We'd eat and then whatever I was in trouble for wouldn't get mentioned again.