10/01/2026
After marriage beti guest ke jaise haste hue aati hai sasural se apne ghr ,aur fir haste hue chali jati hai mayke se sasural matlab apne ghr ,aati hai bahut bate krne ke do h kr aati hai ki yeh bolenge wah bolenge but fir Bina bole chali jati hai kyoki ab 2 /2 ghr hone ke bad bhi ab uska koi ghr nahi hota hai ,ek mayka aur ek sasural ,aur fir dono ghr ki izzat ab uske hath mai hai soch kr na yaha ki waha ,aur na waha ki yaha bol pati hai ,pata nahi betiya kaise shadi hote hi itni badi ho jati hai .
🛡️ Shield kabhi shor nahi karti…
Woh shaant reh kar apne ko safe karti hai.
Jo apne liye sab kuch sahi maanta hai,
woh kisi aur ki takleef kabhi nahi sunta.
Jab bolne se sirf shor badhe,
to react nahi — protect karna zaroori hota hai.
Physical ya mental abuse
kisi bhi rishte mein acceptable nahi hota —
chahe husband ho, father ho, brother ho ya koi aur.
Selective morality sabse bada injustice hoti hai —
jab niyam sirf ek ke liye ho
aur baaki sab ke liye sab kuch “normal”.
Jab dard chup rehta hai,
woh gusse, khamoshi ya galat aadaton ke roop mein bahar aata hai.
Par problem yeh nahi ki koi toot raha hai —
problem yeh hai ki hum use samajhne ke bajay judge karte hain.
Cheekh kar baat kaage nahi badhti,
shaant boundary poore system ko hila deti hai.
Ilzaam se nahi, boundary se izzat banti hai.
Control se nahi, care se rishte bachte hain.
Jo apne dard ko sambhalna seekh leta hai,
woh kisi ko hurt nahi karta —
woh bas apni boundary bana leta hai.
Jab aapse kaha jaaye — “Pls stay out of this” —
aur baat physical ya mental abuse ki ho,
to shield ban kar kehna chahiye:
“Main is matter se bahar nahi reh sakta / sakti.
Yeh mere apno ki safety ka sawal hai.”
Family ka matter sirf gents ka nahi hota.
Maa, patni, behen, beti —
sab is system ka hissa hoti hain,
kyunki sabne hi mardon ko paala, ghar sambhala aur rishte jode hote hain.
Har ghar ko yeh seekhna hoga:
“Main cheekh kar nahi —
shaant reh kar apno ko suraksha dunga / dungi.”
🛡️ Shield kabhi shor nahi karti…
Woh shaant reh kar apno ko safe karti hai.
✍️ Anita Agarwal
Healing through Values
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