30/12/2019
Pmd. Post martum depression. This is something which our culture and our ladies of pak, mean to say the dadis nanis and the par wali dadis nanis, the old generation do not believe in. They fail to understand, because this is something they have never known or maybe even faced. But unfortunately it exists.
But what I want to say that your surroundings play a major role to trigger pmd , which can result in either it subsiding and fading away or maybe even growing deeper to take you into suicidal state.
What you need is positivity, love, care, affection, a partner who keeps thanking you and loving you inspite of your scars or even your sleepless, baby fat state,
You don't need to meet people who talk about gender, color of the baby, the nose, the height, the weight, or even pros and cons of a feeder or breastmilk.
It is you and your baby, you choose a name, hold , caress, keep a maid or whatever suits you. Just be comfortable.
If it is normal or a c section, it is OK. Becoz Allah has granted you a high state, the status of a mother cannot be measured.
So ladies, enjoy motherhood. Smile and simply feel beautiful.... As going through the same phase thats why can write how it feels like....
