08/01/2016
I’m Bored!
I was driving this weekend and listening to NPR in the car. They were playing recordings they had made from survivors of the University of Texas campus shooting in 1966; fifty years ago. One interview really stuck in my mind. I apologize for not catching the gentleman’s name (I was driving!), but he was recounting that day and how before he decided to skip class and go hang out in a coffee shop that he had run across a friend and made the comment “I’m bored.”
At one point in time, probably every college student feels this ennui, blows of a class and goes and does something else. The modern day equivalent is probably Starbucks and Facebook. This particular man had his coffee interrupted by the shooting. Rather than stay in the coffee shop, he went out to see what was going on and ended up seeing a student who had been shot and was lying on the ground. He successfully dragged him behind some cars only to realize he was already dead.
At the end of the interview, he acknowledged the impact of the events of that day, every day, for the last fifty years on his life. He said that he has never uttered the phrase “I’m bored” since that day because he has never forgotten how fleeting and capricious life can be. Instead he has valued every moment of life in the last fifty years.
How many of you have said “I’m bored” in the last day? week? month? (This is excluding anyone under the age of 18 who sometime utter this phrase hourly as most parents will verify.)
If you catch yourself saying or thinking this, STOP!
We are fortunate enough to live in an amazing country and most of us have lives that the majority of the planet’s population cannot begin to comprehend. If you find yourself saying “I’m bored,” stop, take a step back and get up and do something. Preferably something that helps someone else.
This gentleman’s story carried a profound message, if we are willing to listen and learn. Live your life every day to the best that you can, savoring and valuing every moment and you will never be bored again. I know I will remember his story and will work hard to never be bored again.
Please note, this is not the type of article I generally write on social media but I was unable to get this story out of my mind. I figured there must be a reason and I hope by sharing this, I have helped someone else. Sometimes we need to look up from business facts and figures and reflect on life for a moment instead.
Lynne Wilkinson