Patsy by Design

10/06/2026

I don't think most women need more information about how to have a better life.

We have bookshelves full of it.

The problem is using any of it when it's Tuesday afternoon, you're tired, someone needs something from you and your brain has 47 tabs open.

That's why By Design is about the HOW.

Small, practical skills you can actually use inside the life you're already living.

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10/04/2026

Maybe the question isn't:

"What am I supposed to be doing?"

Maybe it's:

"What actually works for me?"

Human Design is one of the tools I use in my private coaching to help answer that question.

But the bigger idea goes through everything I teach:

Your life shouldn't be built around someone else's SHOULD list.

10/01/2026

I've spent a lot of time thinking about how quickly we turn our lives into projects.

What do I need to fix?

What do I need to change?

What should I be doing better?

And pretty soon we're looking at a perfectly good life through the lens of everything that's wrong with it.

I'm not saying there aren't things we want to change. Of course there are.

But there's a difference between intentionally choosing something you want to change and constantly walking around believing you aren't doing your life well enough.

Sometimes the first thing that needs to change isn't your life.

It's the way you're experiencing it.

That's a big part of what I teach in By Design.

Not how to create some perfect life where nothing hard happens.

How to live the one you're actually in with more intention, choice and gratitude.

Even when parts of it suck.

09/30/2026

The SHOULD list might be more exhausting than the actual to-do list.

Mine has definitely had some ridiculous things on it over the years.

You don't have to tell me yours. 😂

But if you have at least one thing you're officially taking off the should list today, give me a 🙋‍♀️.

09/25/2026

09/24/2026

We spend a lot of time asking ourselves what we should be doing.

Maybe a better question is:

What do I actually want?

Not someday.

Today.

I'd really love to know your answer.

09/23/2026

Sometimes your life doesn't look bad.

It just doesn't feel like the life you thought you'd be living by now.

And somehow that turns into a whole lot of "I should be..." in your head.

That's one of the reasons I created By Design.

Not to give you more things you should be doing.

To help you actually use what you already know to live your life more intentionally.

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09/18/2026

This is the article on me in Voyage Denver!

Patsy Prather September 15, 2026 Exploring Life & Business with Patsy Prather of Patsy by Design, LLC Local Stories Share Tweet Pin Today we’d like to introduce you to Patsy Prather. Hi Patsy , we’re thrilled to have a chance to learn your story today. So, before we get into specifics, maybe you...

09/08/2026

I will be sharing a love story! A real one with ups and downs. I hope you can join us! There will be other great stories also! See you there!

Join us Saturday night to hear Patsy's story. Joy, gratitude and grief all in one story and in one person.
Patsy Rogers Prather Treehouse Cafe COS

08/24/2026

I'm almost done with part one of my book. This book is part memoir part advocacy project. I want to shine a light on the journey families face in the mental health journey of their loved ones. Part one is Jon and my story from the point of view of the love story it was. I write stream of consciousness. I don't correct. I don't get punctuation right. I just type. Then I give it co-pilot to give me the grammer, paragraph, typo and all check. I don't let it make changes just tell me what I need to fix. This is what C-pilot sent back to me after it read chapter 11. I'll be okay but right now I'm a wreck.