10/24/2025
“The Perfect Punishment”
Imagine grounding your child with the punishment of gaining intelligence. When I was growing up it was “write your name or I won’t do such and such ever again 100 times”. Sit in your room with nothing. Giving me nothing but time to WASTE. Or there’s some who think physical lashes and beatings do the trick. But what about ‘read this book to learn about yourself, learn about your behaviors, learn about what you lack, and gain tools and resources of INTELLIGENCE and VALUE’. Morals. If you sit here and read at least 3-4 chapters a night while you sit at my table or on your bed, and at the end of your scheduled punishment write me a summary for every chapter you wrote and present it, we’ll see if you’re done with your time. Imagineeee. Imagine! Your child is gaining education. To be more specific, your child is gaining education that is not taught in schools and very useful. They’re not sitting in their rooms doing nothing. They’re not sitting in their rooms losing their minds and building anxiety and frustration. They’re being productive while being punished. Who will your kids become if you don’t support them in becoming ‘somebody’? Learning is a resource that is made a choice. Just because we have to send our kids to school doesn’t mean they’ll choose to learn. Friends, fun, lack of discipline, lack of dreams and goals, lack of motivation and desire, lack of direction and focus, can hijack your children’s minds and then what? Even for those children who seem to be ‘perfect’, never into to trouble, or reaping havoc into your life or their own life. They still could use sense of direction and educational spark. It’s like giving extra credit in class. Why not? We give our kids so much leeway to fall and fail. Great, nothing is forced and they’re independently learning from wins and losses, but giving them opportunity, example, and resources of education outside of school to be and do great things, can fill the gap to that. Think about it…
Know your neuro is another great resource to utilize with your children! Raising healed adults is the goal.
https://www.knowyourneuro.org/skills/coping-skills/family-skills