08/18/2026
My Little Big Guy
Remember Joe? I had the best visit with Joe and his wife, Colette. These are my Chicago people. And they gave me a great week right when I really needed it.
Now I want to tell you about their son, Nick.
Nick, Dominick, is brilliant, beautiful, sensitive—and autistic.
Years ago, Nick gave me a very special gift: he asked me to be his adopted mother. Not legal at all, but very real to him and me.
We’ve been buddies ever since. He’s now 6'4", wears a size 14 shoe. He’s a 35-year-old man, but right now he is going through his teenage years. So he calls me every few days, and we talk about everything, anything he wants to talk about.
His dances, his clothes, haircuts, yes, pretty girls… and pretty much anything else. Nick knows EVERYTHING about everything. Especially reptiles. But almost every other topic too. Every fact, every figure, every detail, he knows. Even politics - very cool to hear his perspective.
He even gave me four articles to read on the plane about reverse aging. He keeps an eye on me. ❤️
He has the most tender heart, and wherever we go, people at the Harbor just say hi to him; they didn’t even know him. This wasn’t always the case; it used to be people didn’t know better and were quite hurtful towards him because of his disability, but he was always a kind gentleman in return. Even though it hurt him. No one knows, but he battles his autism; he hates that he has it.
One of my favorite parts of my life is this family. I also get to have two beautiful girlfriends with these guys. For a girl that didn’t get to have kids, Colette taught me alot about them; one thing that stays with me is that if you say you are going to do something, you have to do it.
Seems simple, but if you don’t have children, you don’t get how hard this is. I don’t even remember birthdays, but I remember his. He is the only child I am attentive to.
I just wanted to share my darling Nick with you.
My Little Big Guy
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