10/12/2026
Do I Love What I Do?
People have asked over the years, “Do you love what you do?
Hmmm. Do I love what I do?
I think I do. I really don’t know what else to call it, but love. It’s my job, so I don’t spend much time thinking about loving it.
“But I do thrive on it… almost every day, maybe not all day every day, but most days.” (Charlotte quote)
Yesssss. I do love it.
I think you have to be a little hard-wired for interior design. My brain just works this way.
I learned from the ground up, spending time in the workrooms of amazing designers, watching, witnessing, absorbing, and devouring everything I could.
It took me forever to finish my degree because I enjoy learning by doing. I wanted to apply what I learned in the real world as soon as I could.
Know what your customer wants. Have exactly what they want. Don’t confuse them with choices. Your clients hired the designer to make decisions.
There’s a lot more to this business than picking pretty things. Which is one of the reasons I’m writing out loud. I want people to understand the layers of experience that go into becoming a designer.
When I’m working, I’M ALL IN.
My senses are turned all the way up. I’m making decisions, solving problems, and moving things along. One day, I selected 90 items for a client. Ninety! Every single one had to be correct and every single one had to work with everything else.
Architecture, lighting, materials, color, scale, budgets, contractors, and the person who’s going to live in the finished space.
And yes, it can kick my ass. It seems I love that part too.
From the moment I meet a client, my brain starts collecting information. By the time I’m ready to design, I want every possible sample, colorway, and material in front of me.
More is better.
And then comes the moment.
Everything is working beautifully, and then I tilt it just a little.
Or a lot.
One unexpected decision. A little tension. Something that makes the design feel alive, not simply correct.
That’s the success of the Tilt.
I can’t help myself. I have to put it askew….anyone can do perfect!
I love watching clients evolve, too. They don’t always know what’s possible. I do. Knowing when to push, when to pull back, and how far to take someone without going over the edge.
That’s part of my job.
And then there are the houses.
I especially love older homes. The ones with a story. A builder before me. A designer before me. A life that has already happened there.
I see what can be saved, what can be reimagined, and what’s possible. I love giving these houses another chapter.
And I love the new builds, too. We have some amazing builders around here, creating beautiful homes with interesting architecture. More thoughtful homes, more styles, more people creating something that actually feels like them.
We need more of that.
But do I love all things DESIGN?
Ohhhh, absolutely.
Design turns me on. Making all those moving parts work together can be exhausting, but watching everything fall into place?
Well… that’s kind of a turn-on, too.
So, do I love what I do?
I think I kind of do.
I’m an East Coast girl, so naturally, I stay mostly coastal. And some of the homes closer to the ocean are the older ones.
And I like to save them.
Oy.
I’m such a romantic.
Even in business.
I really do see the romance in old buildings.
I’m ridiculous.🌹