08/31/2026
One of the most important lessons Grace has taught me is that meaningful work does not have to look the same for everyone.
For Grace, success is not about how quickly she completes a task or how many items she can check off a list.
It is about having the opportunity to learn, try new things, make choices, contribute and feel proud of something she helped create.
Some days, Grace pours candles. Other days, she helps with wicks. Sometimes, she has no interest in doing what I think we should be doing. And sometimes, her greatest contribution is offering a very honest opinion about something we have created.
If you know Grace, you know she does not sugarcoat her reviews.
When we started The Grace Effect, I never wanted to build something for Grace while leaving her on the sidelines.
I wanted to build something with her.
Something that could grow as she grows.
Something that would give her the space to discover what she loves, what she is good at and what she wants her future to look like.
As her mom, I do not need her future to look like everyone else’s.
I want her to have a future filled with choices, opportunities and a sense of belonging.
Every candle, every new skill, every opinion she shares and every bit of confidence she gains feels like one more step toward a future that truly belongs to her.
That is what we are building through The Grace Effect: meaningful opportunities, greater independence and a place where Grace can contribute in her own way.
And I hope it reminds others that inclusion is not simply about creating a place for someone at the table. It is about making sure they have a meaningful role once they are there. ❤️