03/10/2025
Navigating major decisions in your life, such as a move can be tricky at best, when making them for yourself. Add the weight of the responsibility of navigating major decisions for a parent who has always had your back in all the journeys, you have embarked on, these changes can be all-consuming and frightening. Since my personal "cheerleader" was the one I was now attempting to make good decisions for; I can say it had become paralyzing.
My favorite method of finding any professional to do business with, is through a personal referral. I contacted a friend in the real estate business in North Texas and asked for just that, a referral. She put me in touch with Elena Marrufo, a realtor with Ebby Halliday, who served the North Texas area as well as Oklahoma. Here's where, I say, "Bless Her Heart!".
I'm no stranger to buying and selling of real estate and remodeling endeavors, but when it came to this move, I regressed to the little brown eyed girl my daddy called "Missy". Elena stepped up. Every concern I threw her way, like a panicked child, she was like, "No Problem".
I immersed myself in moving Dad to an awesome Independent Living Facility in Oklahoma City, where he now has a charming little apartment in the large facility. The facility fit his needs to a "T", three meals a day in the dining room, transportation service, light housekeeping service, social activities and friends to interact with. He made this transformation with flying colors in what my kids and I refer to as "Papol Goes to College".
Goodbye 3 bedroom home with lawn maintenance, grocery shopping, preparing his own meals and being lonely; though he never complained. I like to think the house is happy as well, with a whole "family" taking up residence!
Elena, with her easy going, "no problem" attitude, took care of,..... well, everything else.
So, just paying it forward today, telling her what I think of her and leaving a good reference!
Thank you Elena for your professionalism, and going above and beyond to hold my hand through this transition. I am, and will forever be, grateful.
~ Donna Young