07/25/2023
I woke up to so many sweet birthday messages! Thank you! Mannnnnn, I live a blessed life! It's so far from perfect, but it's so so good. I get to do exactly what I want every day, and I definitely don't take for granted the privilege of being my own boss with a support system like mine.
I have some random thoughts, as I usually have on my birthday, so buckle up... it's a long one.
I'm usually happy every day of the year EXCEPT my birthday (I don't like getting "older" - still mentally processing that), but today I woke up with a surprisingly positive spirit! Now I regret that I probably scrooged up any birthday plans Shawn had for me.
I initially wanted to share 37 big life lessons I learned, but I'm tired, so I'm just gonna just share 12 things I learned just this last year.
1. How are you pretty with hair, but not pretty without it? Make it make sense.
2. Speak your mind - who gon pop you?
3. Just because everybody else is doing it - you don't have to.
4. You stand out naturally - embrace it and be yourself.
5. You have the right to make every single penny you want to make, and nobody should/could tell you differently.
6. You can AND SHOULD charge for every single thing you do in your business. It's not fair for someone to ask for free work, especially when they're offering nothing in return.
7. Not everything happens for a reason - some things just happen, and it's no one's fault.
8. It was not GOD'S will for that bad thing to happen, and nobody can tell me differently. (Don't debate me on this - I don't want to hear it.)
9. Everything I want, I'll eventually get. I'm patient.Anything that I don't get, I really don't need it!
10. Stay away from nasty, messy, negative people. They have a way of rubbing that nasty energy on you.
11. Some people really use you for what you bring to the table. Dig deep for discernment between opportunists and real friends.
12. Tap into your friends wisdom, especially when you're reactive/impulsive like me.
Cheers to 37!!