08/13/2026
AUGUST: REACHING FOR STAR ✨
This is my birthday month.
And this year, I’m giving myself something I’ve been trying to give myself for a long time:
ME.
Somewhere between designer, business owner, problem solver, creative, wife, mother, and the woman who always finds a way to get ish done…I started putting myself last again.
I let a my work consume me. AGAIN!
I didn’t work out. I didn’t eat right. I stopped making time for me.
I worked hard to lose weight, and over the last few weeks, I gained some back.
Yep, that bothers me.
But what bothers me more is realizing how easily I abandon myself when everything and everyone else starts demanding more of me.
That stops here.
Not because I need to become some new woman.
Because I really let HER down this time.
The beautiful woman.
The sensual woman.
The disciplined woman.
The creative woman.
The BOSS who knows what she brings into a room and will no longer allow a client, project, deadline, or dollar amount to make her question her worth.
The “Star” I keep reaching for…
She’s still here.
At 46, I’m not spending another year finding her and then letting her go.
I want my sexy back.
My energy back.
My body back.
My creativity back.
My boundaries back.
My confidence back.
My JOY back.
I want THAT STAR back. 💫
So this month, becomes more than something I randomly post about.
I AM THE PROJECT.
My habits. My body. My boundaries. My creativity. My business. My relationship with myself.
It’s ALL part of the renovation.
No more waiting until life calms down.
No more starting over every Monday, month, or whatever!!!
No more disappearing from my own life to make someone else’s vision happen.
Today, I start.
Tomorrow, I continue.
And when I have a bad day, I don’t start over.
I KEEP GOING.
My hashtag for a long time has been 💫.
Maybe the lesson was never to keep reaching for her.
Maybe it was finally realizing…
I AM HER. ⭐️
Happy birthday month to me.
Here’s to taking care of my space so that my space can take care of me. ✨✨✨
