09/02/2026
“I Am Not My Boobs.” That shouldn’t be a difficult declaration to make, but when faced with the choice of losing them, it feels much more weighted.
I wrote another journal entry (link in profile 👆🏻) about my prophylactic double mastectomy with flat closure. This time in more detail about my thought process and how I made that choice. What factors were involved. And why it was the right decision for me.
My mental health has not always been spectacular. (I mean, whom amongst us, amirite) And I’ve put a lot of work into it over the past decade. So when this huge physical thing happened, I had to allow my mental health into that conversation too.
I also wrote this for someone who might be considering a prophylactic mastectomy. It can be a lonely place to be, sometimes tinged with shame. But I am fervently pro-choice and believe that every woman should make her own decisions for her body, whether it’s to have surgery or not. This is just my story and I’m glad to be living in it.
Also, it’s another excuse to post a pic from my amazing shoot with Alisha at North Carolina Bo***ir Photographer - Wilmington